5 Things to do when you arrive in your new country!

5 things to do when you arrive in your new country.

Moving to a new country is not easy and is often the most difficult and life altering decision you ever make. It will certainly have the most far reaching consequence, not only on your life, but your families and your friends. Do note though, that like all major events, some of the detail will fade with time and change is ultimately easier in practice than in thought, especially when tackled with the right attitude and an ability to grasp what you are told is true and for you to “adopt” rather than “refute”.

Unfortunately like children, moving does not come with a manual and each move is different, however, there are definitely some things that can and will make the move a little less traumatic for all.

Rule 1:
Do learn language. Without learning to speak the local language, you will continue to be an outsider, and although your accent is an advantage, your inability to make yourself understood will always hold you back.

Rule 2:
Listen to those that have “got the T shirt”, be humble enough to actually really listen to their advice, idea’s and suggestions.  What you don’t know when you arrive, is not a reflection of your investigative skills.

Rule 3:
Make friends with people of your new culture and your old. Participate and adopt your new culture, it does not mean that you have lost your previous identify, it simply means that you are fortunate to have experience in both. Embrace your diversity, without smacking your new country in the face with your old traditions.

Rule 4:
Know your interest and hobbies. Find out where to participate in them and join in. It is common ground that will ensure new relationships.

Rule 5:
The sooner you can get back to “normal” and feel like you are contributing and “living” like you did in the past, the sooner you will settle. Do not think that because the country you live in has changed, that you have- what made you happy in the past, will make you happy in the future- understand what this is and seek it out.