It’s Peaceful dammit- By Charles Clayton

It’s peaceful dammit

I’m almost two years into my life in Canada now. Two years of what I will probably look back on and describe as “interesting”! Two years of still grappling with the vast cultural difference that I really didn’t realize existed in my original naivety. Ah well at least it makes for some interesting discussions on occasions. Thank goodness I’m fairly large sometimes!

I’m still surprised at how often I get asked by Canadians,
 “So how do you like Canada (eh?)?
It is like a Pavlovian reaction. Hear an accent. Enquire as to length of stay. Ask the question. The intriguing part is that it is always the same question. No variation on the basic theme. It is always – how do I like Canada! I’ve never been asked how I like Canadians. How I like the country. How I like Ontario. Why I am here. What I think of the people or politics. What the differences are. How I am coping with the differences.
So here’s the very simple answer. I wouldn’t be here if I hadn’t done my homework on the country, it’s people and it’s customs. I am a Mensan after all. I chose to come to Canada for what, I reasoned, that it offered to my children and me. Simple. And, I suspect, the exact same reason every other legal immigrant has for coming here.
When Canadians learn I am from South Africa they then say,
“I hear it is such a beautiful country”. Followed by a sigh. Not always mine I may add.
Well yes. God certainly had a hand in shaping the geographic environment. I think sometimes that the Devil decided to balance things out by dabbling with the people there but that is another story.
The funny thing is that no South African ever asks anyone they think is an alien “So how do you like South Africa (hey?)? We just automatically assumed that they knew how beautiful it was. The first questions that are asked revolve around whether the visitor had seen this or that or the other. Done this or that. Eaten or drunk this or that! If it was suspected that they might not have, then a major effort was made to ensure that they did. Honour was at stake! Every conceivable thing that could be thrust upon the unsuspecting visitor was! Including the ubiquitous “braai”. This, to the uninformed, is a Barbeque where copious quantities of meat and alcohol are consumed. This explains why visitors nearly always go home weighing more than when they arrived desperately needing cholesterol testing. Clutching enough film of obscure places that never make it into the guidebooks to keep Kodak’s shareholders smiling. Not to mention the souvenirs of carved wooden giraffes that need an airline seat of their own to be taken home.
So here’s a small wake up call to Canadians. Actually from what I have seen this country has some of the most astounding scenery around. And some very interesting places to visit and things to do. I am coming to the sneaky suspicion though that most Canadians know very little about their own country and indeed have seen even less.
When I talk to them about certain parts of Canada I also get the “I hear” line. “I hear that Alberta is quite nice”. “I hear that the train ride through the Rockies is beautiful”. I’m still trying to find someone who has traveled extensively throughout Canada. Whenever I hear people discussing their plans for a vacation, future or past, it always seems to involve travel outside the country. If inside the country it seems to be the Cottage Country getaway. The same getaway every year. When I ask if they have been to the Maritimes or BC or indeed the outer reaches of Ontario I mostly get told that “someday” they intend to do it. That is if I get a verbal answer rather than “the look”! The “are you crazy? Why go there when I can laze in the sunshine at some over-priced resort and be waited on?”look!
OK I admit that travel is cheap here. That going to Europe, the UK or the many Islands in the Caribbean is affordable. Even with the Dollar exchange traveling down in the America’s seems to be inexpensive too. It is exciting to have tales of overseas travel under your belt. Makes you seem both glamorous and rich (probably the main reason for doing it!), but maybe it is time to get to know your own country and all it’s splendour. Before the immigrants do it and become annoying in their smug knowledge of the country.
I seriously suspect that the reason Canadians ask the question is because they are unsure of the country themselves. They feel a little guilty about that and need some reassurance.
Which is why I never allow my warped sense of humour to get the better of me and answer in the negative. I may just try that someday to see if I would get a reaction, but you know, I think that the Canadians damn politeness when dealing with “multicultural sensitivities” would probably overcome any desire to tell me to “go home”.
I hear Mexico is warm this time of the year.

 

Stumbling through the mobile networks in Canada.

Mobile networks and their numerous packages are a minefield at the best of times. Here is a thread I thought I would start so we can help people looking for a mobile phone or people upgrading their mobile phones.

As a South African we are used to paying only for outgoing calls and sms’s (Texts). Not so in Canada and the USA depending on your package but most networks, you pay for incoming and outgoing.

We live just outside the GTA (Greater Toronto Area)  and as such finding a suitable mobile phone package has been difficult to say the least.  If you live within the GTA it is still a problem because if you travel in your car, you run the risk of being in an area that falls outside the GTA and you get a surprise when you get your bill.

So after changing providers a few times trying to settle on a service provider that does it for me we settled with “Bell”. The service was good because you can list 10 of your friends and family to call without charge. Now that business is picking up and we need to do more traveling we are all too often falling into that trap of calling outside the GTA calls are then at 50 cents R4.50 a minute.

Reading through all the providers current packages I have found nothing that even comes close to what I need. You get lots of minutes and no data or lots of data and local minutes and so the matrix unfolds.

So I decide to go into the store and ask Bell my current provider for assistance. Lo and behold I can upgrade my package (300 shared local minutes , no voice mail, no calling line id, unlimited text and 1Gb data for $65) to Unlimited “Canada wide” minutes , 2Gb of data,  voice mail , Calling line id and unlimited text for $5 cheaper.

Who knew! I guess the thing I am learning is, you have to ask and then go back and ask every few months because you can sometimes get a better deal they do not advertise.

I wonder how many people “Churn” through the providers instead of asking and getting those unadvertised deals.

Welcome

Welcome to Canada Newbies,

As relative newbie’s ourselves, we understand that we are by no means experts in any area of living here in Canada, however what we can share is our experience, our up’s and our down”s- (and there have been many of them).

We can tell you that it has taken us a fair amount of time to settle and that the winters in Toronto ain’t that bad and that summer is the best kept Canadian secret EVER!

We love winter just as much as we love the summer and by the time the end of summer rolls round, the cold weather is almost a welcome reprieve from long sticky summer days. Of course the snow that arrives in January probably has something to do with it as my boys have dived in it, build forts and maizes in it. We have of course had a broken arm to show  for it, from the snow boarding accident.

This year my boys will get to participate in Rugby, a fairly unknown sport here, however it is well supported by those in “the know” and all the games are broadcast here on the TV networks, so you won’t be missing out on the coming and the going of the Sharks and the Blue bulls- the rivalry is “sterk” in my home!

There is a lot to be said about food, wine and good old “Nando’s” which we can of course is readily available at 4 locations in and around Toronto. I can’t wait to see them expand and our regular Wednesday evening meal return- however my own “flatties” ain’t to bad either!

We do hope that as more and more ex South Africans hear about Canadanewbies, that you will share your stories with us all, no matter how long ago it was or how many winters you have “survived”  we want all the details.

We newbies are inspired by you, motivated by your stories and in awe of your achievements and accomplishments. You give us hope that Canada will one day translate into Home.

 

 

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